MarriageOrNothing.com

How it works

From introduction to conversation

Every step is designed around one question: are you both ready for marriage?

  1. 1

    Create your account

    Register with your email, phone number and date of birth. You must be 18 or older. We verify your email address and phone number before you continue.

  2. 2

    Record your 20-second introduction

    Say your first name, what you do, the state or city you live in, how soon you hope to marry, and the kind of partner you're looking for. Practise as many times as you like before recording.

  3. 3

    Answer structured questions

    Tell us your marriage timeline, relationship status, faith, family and lifestyle expectations, and what you want in a partner. Mark the things that are firm requirements.

  4. 4

    Review and approval

    Our team reviews every video before it appears to other members. You can also verify your identity with a government-issued document for an extra badge.

  5. 5

    Discover and reach out — free

    Watch compatible members' introductions. Tap “Interested” to send a reach-out with an optional note, or “Not interested” to move on. No charges.

  6. 6

    Accept and engage

    When someone accepts your reach-out, both of you pay ₦5,000 from your wallets in a single transaction and a private conversation opens. If either wallet is short, neither is charged until both are funded.

What it costs

Pay only for a mutual connection

₦5,000

per member, per successful engagement

  • • No compulsory subscription.
  • • Both members pay the same fee — only when a reach-out is accepted and the engagement activates.
  • • The fee is shown to both members before they confirm.
  • • Messages within an active engagement are free, however many you send.
  • • Fund your wallet only when you are ready. Suggested minimum deposit: ₦5,000.

Always free

  • ✓Registering and building your profile
  • ✓Recording your video introduction
  • ✓Browsing compatible members
  • ✓Watching video introductions
  • ✓Sending a reach-out
  • ✓Receiving a reach-out
  • ✓Saying “I'm not interested”
  • ✓Leaving a request unanswered
  • ✓Blocking or reporting a member
  • ✓Messaging in an active engagement

If either member's wallet does not have enough for the fee, neither member is charged and the conversation stays closed until both have topped up. Requests that expire, are withdrawn or become invalid are cancelled without any charge.